CHAPTER 11 DEVELOPING VALUES
第十一章 培養價值觀
To love God truly, one must first love man. And if anyone tells you that he loves God and does not love his fellow man, you will know that he‘s lying.
Hassidic saying
要真的愛上帝，必須先愛人。如果有任何人告訴你，他愛上帝但是不愛同類的人，你將知道他是在說謊。
哈西狄諺語
When you hear a man say, “I hate,” adding the name of some race, nation, religion, or social class, you are dealing with a belated mind. That man may dress like a modern, ride in an automobile, listen over the radio, but his mind is properly dated about 1000 B.C.
Harry Emerson Fosdick (1878-1969)
當你聽到一個人說“我恨”，後面加上某個種族、國家、宗教、社會階級的名詞，你正在面對一個陳舊的心靈。那個人或許穿著像現代人，坐汽車、聽收音機，但是他的心靈完全是西元前一千年的。
哈利 愛默生 法斯狄克(1878-1969)
Hatred toward any human being cannot exist in the same heart as love to God.
Dean William Inge (1860-1954)
對人類的恨和對上帝的愛，無法存在同一顆心中。
丁 威廉 英格(1860-1954)
He does not believe who does not live according to his belief.
Thomas Fuller (1608-61)
他不相信不遵照自己的信念而活的人。
湯姆士 福樂(1608-61)
Who you are shouts so loud, I cannot hear what you‘re saying.
Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-82)
你是誰，這麼大聲的喊叫，我聽不到你說什麼。
拉夫 華爾多 愛默生(1803-82)
To say these words is nothing. But to mean these words is everything.
A Course in Miracles
用說的，這些字眼一文不值。但是用體會的，這些字眼卻無比重要。
奇蹟的跑道
Live truth instead of professing it.
Elbert Hubbard (1856-1915)
依真理而活，而非公開宣稱信奉真理。
愛伯 哈博得(1856-1915)
Men are all alike in their promises. It is only in their deeds that they differ.
Moliere (1622-73)
從諾言來看，人都是一樣的。只有從行為來看，人各不相同。
模理葉(1622-73)
Our problem is not to find better values but to be faithful to those we profess.
John W. Gardner
我們的難題不是去發現更好的價值觀，而是忠於我們信奉的價值觀。
約翰W.加得樂
If one is to do good one must do it in the minute particulars. General good is the plea of the hypocrite, the flatterer and the scoundrel.
William Blade (1757-1827)
如果一個人要做好事，他必須在每一個細微的事項去實踐。籠統的善是偽君子、馬屁精以及惡棍的托辭。
威廉 布雷得(1757-1827)
He who waits to do a great deal of good at once will never do anything. Life is made up of little things. True greatness consists in being great in little things.
Samuel Johnson (1709-84)
如果有人在等待，想一次做一大堆的好事，他絕不可能做出任何事。
生命是許許多多的小事組成的。真正的偉大在於在每件小事上都偉大。
薩謬爾 詹森(1709-84)
If, after I depart this vale, you ever remember me and have thought to please my ghost, forgive some sinner and wink your eye at some homely girl.
H.L.Menchen (1880-1956)
在我死後，如果你還會偶爾記起我，並且想討好我的鬼靈，不如寬恕某一個犯錯的人，對某一個其貌不揚的女人眨眨眼。
H.L.勉軒(1880-1956)
The smallest good deed is better than the grandest good intention.
Duguet
最小的善行也好過最大的善念。
度吉特
If you can‘t feed a hundred people, then feed just one.
Mother Teresa (1910-97)
如果你不能餵養一百個人，那麼只餵養一個吧。
德雷莎修女
The road to Hell is paved with good intentions; the road to Heaven is paved with good deeds.
Anonymous
到地獄之路是由善良的動機鋪成的;到天堂之路是由善良的行為鋪成的。
無名氏
When God measures a man, He puts the tape around the heart instead of the head.
Author Unknown
當上帝要丈量一個人的時候，祂將捲尺繞著胸口而不是繞著頭。
作者不詳
I shall tell you a great secret, my friend. Do not wait for the last judgment; it takes place every day.
Albert Camus (1913-60)
我的朋友，我要告訴你一個大祕密。不要等待最後的審判，它每天都在舉行。
愛伯特 開模斯(1913-60)
When it‘s all over, will you be able to look Him in the eye?
G.W.F.
當一切都結束了，你能夠眼睛看著上帝嗎？
G.W.F.
In a community in which there is involuntary starvation every well-fed person is a thief.
Holbrook Jackson
在一個共同社會，如果有被迫餓死的人，每個吃得飽飽的人都是賊。
霍布魯克 傑克森
Surplus wealth is a sacred trust which its possessor is bound to administer in his lifetime for the good of the community.
Andrew Carnegie (1835-1919)
剩餘的財富是神聖的信託，擁有者有義務終身管理它，為社會謀利。
安德魯 卡內基(1835-1919)
If a rich man is proud of his wealth, he should not be praised until it is known how he employs it.
Socrates (470-399 B.C.)
如果富人誇耀他的財富，他不應該得到讚賞，除非知道他是如何運用他的財富的。
蘇格拉底(西元前470-399)
A man‘s true wealth is the good he does in this world.
Muhammad (570-632)
人的真正財富是他在世上的善行。
穆罕默德(570-632)
To die rich is to have lived in vain.
J.Krishnamurti (1895-1986)
富裕的死表示無意義的活。
J.克理希那穆提(1895-1986)
Sell whatever thou hath, and give it to the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven; and come, take up the cross, and follow me.
Two sources: a carpenter from Nazareth and a street-corner ‘crazy’ in New York City
賣掉你所有的，分給窮人，那麼你將在天國擁有財富;來，背起十字架，跟隨我。
兩個來源:拿撒勒來的木匠和紐約市街角的瘋漢。
People in general are equally horrified at hearing the Christian religion doubted, and at seeing it practiced.
Samuel Butler (1835-1902)
一般來說，人們聽到基督教信仰被質疑，或是看到基督教信仰被實踐，都同樣的驚訝。
薩謬爾 巴特勒(1835-1902)
Christianity might be a good thing if anyone ever tried it.
George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950)
如果任何人曾經試著去實踐它，基督教可能是個好東西。
蕭伯納 (1856-1950)
True religion is the life we live, not the creed we profess.
J.F.Wright
真正的宗教是我們活著的人生，而不是我們聲稱信奉的教義。
J.F.來特
If you are what you do, then when you don‘t you aren’t.
Dr. Wayne Dyer
如果說你是你所做的，那麼，你不做你就不是。
維恩 戴爾 博士
We have committed the Golden Rule to memory. Let us now commit it to life.
Edwin Markham (1852-1940)
我們已經記住了為人的準則。現在讓我們在生活中實踐它。
愛德溫 馬克漢(1852-1940)
What is bad to you, do not to others. That is the entire law; all the rest is commentary.
Rabbi Hillel (30 B.C.- A.D. 10)
己所不欲勿施於人。這就是全部的原則;其餘的都只是註釋而已。
瑞埃 希勒(西元前30-西元10)
I got a simple rule about everybody. If you don‘t treat me right – shame on you!
Louis Armstrong
我明白了一個有關每個人的簡明的通則。如果你不對我好---你不要臉！
路易斯 阿姆斯壯
No man is a true believer unless he desireth for his brother that which he desireth for himself.
Muhammad (570-632)
除非一個人為自己渴求的也同時為兄弟渴求，否則他就不是真正的信徒。
穆罕默德(570-632)
The world is my country; mankind is my brethren; to do good is my religion.
Thomas Paine (1737-1809)
世界是我的家鄉，人類是我的兄弟，行善是我的宗教。
湯馬斯 潘(1737-1809)
Each man has a choice in life: he may approach it as a creator or a critic, a lover or a hater, a giver or a taker.
Author Unknown
每個人生命中都有機會選擇:他可以選擇做一個創造者或評論者，一個熱愛者或懷恨者，一個給予者或接受者。
作者不詳
The ‘rules’ of the Game of Life are for the winners to give some of it back to the losers…
Anonymous
生命遊戲的規則是，獲勝者退還一些給失敗者。
無名氏
You should never take more than you give in the Circle of Life.
Elton John, Circle of Life
在生命的圈圈裡，你絕不可以拿的比給的多。
艾爾頓 瓊，生命的圈圈
“What goes around, comes around,”…Make sure you are going to like what comes around!
Anonymous
來來去去，---確定你要喜歡那個來的。
無名氏
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain (1835-1910)
永遠要行得正。這會讓某些人高興，讓其餘的人震驚。
馬克 吐溫(1835-1910)
There is never a wrong time to do the right thing.
Author Unknown
要做對的事，絕不會有不對的時間。
作者不詳
To see what is right and not do it is want of courage.
Confucius (551-479 B.c.)
看到正確的而不做是缺乏勇氣。
孔子(西元前551-479)
In my humble opinion, non-cooperation with evil is as much a duty as is cooperation with good.
Mahatma Gandhi(1869-1948)
依我的淺見，對罪惡的不合作和對善良的合作都是同樣的義務。
馬哈馬 甘地(1869-1948)
He who allows oppression shares the crime.
Erasmus Darwin (1731-1802)
容許壓迫的人要分攤罪行。
以拉斯馬斯 達爾文(1731-1802)
If there is no justice, there is no peace.
Bahya ben Asher
沒有正義就沒有和平。
巴雅 奔 亞瑟
It is the feeling of injustice that is insupportable to all men… No man can bear it or ought to bear it.
Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881)
非正義的感覺對所有人都不能忍受---沒有人可以承受它或應該承受它。
湯姆士 卡來爾(1795-1881)
You cannot trample upon people who are innocent and not expect retaliation.
Sylvester Stallone
你不可能踐踏無罪的人而不預期報復。
席維斯 史特龍
White man turns the corner, finds himself within a different world; ghetto kid grabs his shoulder, throws him up against the wall. He says, “Would you respect me if I didn‘t have this gun, ‘cause without it I don’t get it and that‘s why I carry one”
Phil Collins, Both Sides of the Story
白人轉過街角，發現自己身在一個不同的世界;貧民窟的小孩抓住他的肩膀，摔他去撞牆。他說，“如果我沒帶這把槍，你們會尊重我嗎？沒有槍我就得不到尊重，所以我帶了這把槍。‘’
非爾 卡林，故事的兩面
You can only protect your liberties in this world by protecting the other man‘s freedom. You can only be free if I am free.
Clarence Darrow (1857-1938)
在這個世界，你只能藉著保護別人的自由來保護自己的自由。如果我自由你才能自由。
克雷恩斯 戴羅(1857-1938)
Whoever claims a right for himself must respect the like right in another.
James Bryce (1838-1922)
為自己主張某種權利的人，必須尊重別人相同的權利。
詹姆士 布來士(1838-1922)
How many years must a people exist before they‘re allowed to be free? How many times can a man turn his head and pretend that he just doesn’t see?
Bob Dylan, Blowin‘ in the Wind
一個民族要存在多久才能被准許自由？一個人要轉過他的頭多少次，假裝他只是沒看到？
巴比 狄倫，風中吹
Neutral men are the devil‘s allies.
Edwin Hubbel Chapin
中立者是魔鬼的同盟。
艾得溫 哈伯 卻平
It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable.
Moliere (1622-73)
不僅我們做的，包括我們沒有做的，我們都要負起責任。
模里葉(1622-73)
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
Edmund Burke (1729-97)
罪惡要獲勝，唯一的條件是好人不做任何事。
艾得蒙 柏克(1729-97)
Live so that when your children think of fairness, caring and integrity, they think of you.
H. Jackson Browne, Jr.
當你的子女想到公平、有愛心、正直，他們會想到你，這樣子活就對了。
小H. 傑克森 布朗
If you compare yourself with others you may become vain and bitter; for there will always be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Desiderata (1692)
如果你和別人比較，你可能會空虛痛苦;因為，總是有比你重要的人，也有比你不重要的人。
狄西德拉特(1692)
Humility is the most difficult of all virtues to achieve; nothing dies harder than the desire to think well of self.
T.S.Eliot (1888-1965)
謙虛是最難達到的美德;把自己想得很好的渴望，沒有東西比它更頑強。
T.S.艾里特(1888-1965)
If Christ was able to remain humble, perhaps the rest of us could also manage to do so.
Anonymous
如果連耶穌都能保持謙虛，或許我們其他的人也能設法做到吧？
無名氏
How great some men would be if they were not arrogant.
Talmud
如果他們不那麼自大，某些人一定會變得多麼偉大啊。
猶太塔木德經
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man‘s character, give him power.
Abraham Lincoln (1809-65)
幾乎所有人都能忍受逆境，如果你想測試一個人的個性，給他們權力。
亞伯拉罕 林肯(1809-65)
A person is no longer great once he thinks he is so.
G.W.F.
一但他自認為了不起，一個人就沒什麼了不起了。
G.W.F.
Greatness flees from him who seeks it, and follows him who flees from it.
Laurence J. Peter
偉大會逃離追求它的人，並追隨逃離它的人。
勞倫斯J.彼得
The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers:
● Is it true?
● Is it kind?
● Is it necessary?
Arabian proverb
話語應該有三個守門人:
● 是否真實？
● 是否善意？
● 是否必要？
阿拉伯諺語
Never say anything about others that you wouldn‘t want them to hear – because they probably will.
Anonymous
絕不要說別人閒話，如果你不想讓他們聽到---因為他們大概都會聽到。
無名氏
What you say tells other people what you are.
Author Unknown
你所說的向別人吐漏了你是什麼樣的人。
作者不詳
Remember, what you possess in the world will be found at the day of your death to belong to someone else, but what you are will be yours forever.
Henry Van Dyke (1852-1933)
記住，你將會發現，你在世上所擁有的東西，在你死的那一天必然屬於其他人，但是，你本身的價值將永遠是屬於你的。
亨利 范 戴克(1852-1933)
If you want to know how rich you really are, find out what would be left of you tomorrow if you should lose every dollar you own tonight.
William J.H.Boetcher
如果你想要知道你真的有多富有，查清楚你明天還剩下什麼，萬一你喪失了你今晚所擁有的每一塊錢，
威廉J.H.波契爾
A man must seek his happiness and inward peace from objects which cannot be taken away from him.
Alexander Humboldt(1769-1859)
一個人要尋找快樂與內在的安寧，必須向他身上拿不走的東西去尋找。
亞歷山大 韓博得(1769-1859)
When wealth is lost, nothing is lost; When health is lost, something is lost; When character is lost, all is lost!
German proverb
當財富失去了，沒有東西失去了;當健康失去了，某些東西失去了;當品格失去了，所有的東西都失去了。
德國諺語
Do not care overly much for wealth or power or fame, or one day you will meet someone who cares for none of these things, and you will realize how poor you have become.
Rudyard Kipling(1865-1936)
不要太在乎財富、權力或名聲，否則某一天你將會遇見某一個不在乎這些東西的人，同時，你將會了解你已經變得多麼貧窮。
盧得亞 奇菩林(1865-1936)
Do you know what real poverty is? It is never having a big thought or a generous impulse.
Jerome P. Fleishman
你知道真正的貧窮是什麼嗎？它的意思是從來不曾有大構想或大衝動。
酋拉姆P.福拉西曼
You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant aspiration.
James Allen (1849-1925)
你將會變得和支配你的慾望一樣渺小;和你的崇高的志向一樣偉大。
詹姆士 艾倫(1849-1925)
The love of money is the root of all evil.
St. Paul
愛錢是罪惡的根源。
聖 保羅
It is the preoccupation with possession, more than anything else, that prevents man from living freely and nobly.
Bertrand Russell (1872-1970)
對擁有財物的專注，比起其它東西，更加妨礙人們活的自由而尊貴。
伯全 羅素(1872-1970)
A man there was and they called him mad; the more he gave the more he had.
John Bunyan (1628-88)
曾經有一個人，大家叫他瘋子;他給的愈多，擁有的愈多。
約翰 班言(1628-88)
They who give have all things; they who withhold have nothing.
Hindu proverb
給予的人擁有一切;不給的人什麼都沒有。
印度諺語
He who wishes to secure the good of others has already secured his own.
Confucius (551-479 B.C.)
想要替別人弄到利益的人，他已經獲得自己的利益了。
孔子(西元前551-479)
The sage does not accumulate for himself. The more he gives to others, the more he possesses of his own. The way of Heaven is to benefit others and not to injure.
Lao-tzu (604-531 B.C.)
聖人不為自己積聚。他給別人愈多，自己擁有的愈多。天之道在利益他人，不損害他人。
老子(西元前604-531)
Superfluous wealth can buy superfluities only. Money is not required to buy one necessity of the soul.
Henry David Thoreau (1817-62)
多餘的財富只能買多餘的東西。要買靈魂的必需品，金錢是不必要的。
亨利 大衛 梭羅(1817-62)
Would you sell both your eyes for a million dollars… or your two legs… or your hands… or your hearing? Add up what you have, and you‘ll find that you wouldn’t sell it all for all the gold in the world.
Dale Carnegie (1888-1955)
你願意用一百萬賣掉你的雙眼嗎？---或者雙腳---雙手---或者你的聽力？把你所擁有的東西加起來，你會發現，你不願意把它們全部賣掉，來換取全世界的黃金。
戴爾 卡內基(1888-1955)
Measure wealth not by the things you have, but by the things you have for which you would not take money.
Author Unknown
衡量財富不是看你擁有什麼，而是看你不計金錢貢獻什麼。
作者不詳
What shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
Jesus
如果贏得全世界卻失去自己的靈魂，對人有什麼益處？
耶穌
The Chinese tell of a man of Peiping who dreamed of gold, much gold, his heart‘s desire. He rose one day and when the sun was high he dressed in his finest garments and went to the crowded market place. He stepped directly to the booth of a gold dealer, snatched a bag full of gold coins, and walked calmly away. The officials who arrested him were puzzled: “Why did you rob the gold dealer in broad daylight?” they asked. “And in the presence of so many people?” “I did not see any people,” the man replied. “I saw only gold.”
Louis Binstock
中國人說一個北平人的故事。他夢到了黃金，很多黃金，他的心的慾望。一天起床，當太陽高昇的時候，他換上最好的衣裳，來到鬧市。他直接走到一個買賣黃金的商鋪，搶了一個裝滿金幣的袋子，然後靜靜的走開。逮捕他的官員感到很奇怪，問他說:“為什麼在光天化日之下，而且還有這麼多人在場，你竟然打劫金鋪呢？‘’這個人回答:“我沒有看到任何人啊，我只看到金子。‘’
路易士 賓史達克
I don‘t think God put you on this earth just to make millions of dollars and ignore everything else.
Chris Amundsen
我不認為上帝將你放在世上，只是要你創造百萬財富而忽略其它每一件事。
克里斯 阿曼森
How men toil to lay up riches which they never enjoy.
William Jay
人多麼辛苦的去貯存財富，卻從來沒有享受財富。
威廉 傑
If we did but know how little some enjoy of the great things that they possess, there would not be much envy in the world.
Young
如果我們確實知道，他們擁有那麼多的東西，卻只有那麼少的享受，世上就不會有那麼多忌妒了。
楊
Even though you have ten thousand fields, you can eat no more than one measure of rice a day. Even though your dwelling contains a hundred rooms, you can use but eight feet of space a night.
Chinese proverb
即使你有萬畝田地，你每天最多也不過吃一升米。即使你的華廈有百間房間，你每晚也只能使用八尺的空間。
中國諺語
Those who want much, are always much in need.
Horace(65-8 B.C.)
想要很多的人總是缺乏很多。
霍樂斯(西元前65-8)
True contentment depends not upon what we have; a tub was large enough for Diogenes, but a world was too little for Alexander.
Charles Caleb Colton (1780-1832)
真正的滿足不是取決於我們所擁有的;一個木桶對戴奧金已經足夠了，但是整個世界對亞歷山大還是太小。
查理士 凱利 科頓(1780-1832)
He who is not contented with what he has would not be contented with what he would like to have.
Socrates (470-399 B.C.)
對已經擁有的還不知足的人，即使他想要的都能擁有，他還是不會滿足。
蘇格拉底(西元前470-399)
To know when you have enough is to be rich.
Lao-tzu (604-531 B.C.)
知足就會富有。
老子(西元前604-531)
I once got a huge check. And the same day I got a huge hug and kiss from my child. The hug and kiss felt better.
G.W.F.
有一次，我得到一張面額很大的支票。同一天，我得到我的小孩很用力的擁抱和親吻。擁抱和親吻感覺更好。
G.W.F
Keep the gold and keep the silver, but give us wisdom.
Arabian proverb
你保留著黃金保留著白銀，但請給我們智慧。
阿拉伯諺語
